The Key to A Healthy Relationship – Happy Inside is Happy Outside

Today I am sharing a very important lesson I have learned about building a healthy relationship with others, and more importantly about building a healthy relationship with myself!

A FACT: It’s not my partner’s job to make me happy. It is MY job to make me happy. 

So often, we unintentionally put so much pressure on our partners to keep us happy. Over time, we even make it their responsibility. We put our happiness in their hands, expecting them to do certain things, behave in a certain way or make decisions that we believe will make us happy. Things don’t always work out this way, do they? 

One of the biggest lessons I have learned is, when I seek happiness externally, I often feel let down. Disappointments and resentments arise. Resentments bring anger, and anger brings arguments.

This is one big reason why relationships get toxic and unhappy. 

In order for a relationship to thrive and be healthy, each partner needs to be complete from within. They need to be content within themselves, in a space where they are secure enough to not constantly need someone else to make them feel that way. When two secure people come together, they create a wholesome, healthy relationship. They are in a space to give and receive. They thrive as partners and as parents.

How we feel inside has a direct impact on how we make others feel. 

Our relationships are nothing but a mirror of our relationship with ourselves… 

• When we lack love inside, we look for it outside 

• When we lack safety inside, we look for security outside 

• When we lack trust inside, we look for reassurance outside 

• When we lack care inside, we look for support and understanding outside 

When we learn to love ourselves unconditionally, magic happens in our relationships. When we are secure, content, and happy within ourselves, we reflect it in every relationship we have. We radiate love outside, without being needy, jealous, controlling, or manipulative. This is the key to a healthy relationship. 

Think about this deeply…what is your relationship health? How are you feeling inside? What energy are you radiating outside? These are questions worth answering, isn’t it! 

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