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Gottman – Quality of Sex, Romance, and Passion in the Relationship
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For each item check the one box below that applies to your relationship right now:
1. Our relationship is
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a) Romantic and passionate
b) Becoming passionless, that is, the fire is going out
2. I would say that
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a) My partner is still verbally affectionate
b) My partner is not very verbally affectionate
3. I would say that
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a) My partner expresses love and admiration to me
b) My partner expresses love or admiration less frequently these days
4. I would say that
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a) We do touch each other a fair amount
b) We rarely touch each other these days
5. I would say that
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a) My partner courts me sexually
b) My partner does not court me sexually
6. I would say that
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a) We do cuddle with one another
b) We rarely cuddle with one another
7. I would say that
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a) We still have our tender and passionate moments
b) We have few tender or passionate moments
8. I would say that
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a) Our sex life is fine
b) There are definite problems in this area
that is
9. I would say that
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a) The frequency of sex is not a problem
b) The frequency of sex is a problem
10. I would say that
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a) The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem
b) The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem
11. I would say that
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a) Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual problems is not a serious issue between us
b) Being able to just talk about sex, or talk about sexual problems is a serious issue between us
12. I would say that
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a) The two of us generally want the same thing sexually
b) The two of us want different things sexually
13. I would say that
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a) Differences in desire are not an issue in this relationship
b) Differences in desire are an issue in this relationship
14. I would say that
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a) The amount of love in our lovemaking is not a problem
b) The amount of love in our lovemaking is a problem
15. I would say that
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a) The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is not a problem
b) The satisfaction my partner gets from sex is a problem
16. I would say that
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a) My partner is still physically very affectionate toward me
b) My partner is not very physically affectionate toward me
17. I would say that
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a) I feel romantic toward my partner
b) I do not feel very romantic toward my partner
18. I would say that
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a) My partner finds me sexually attractive
b) My partner does not find me sexually attractive
19. I would say that
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a) I find my partner sexually attractive
b) I do not view my partner as sexually attractive
20. In this relationship
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a) I feel romantic and passionate toward my partner
b) I feel passionless, my own fire is going out
21. In this relationship
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a) My partner is romantic and passionate
b) My partner is passionless, that is, the fire is going out in my partner
22. I would say that
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a) The satisfaction I get from sex is not a problem
b) The satisfaction I get from sex is a problem
23. I would say that
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a) My partner compliments my appearance
b) My partner does not compliment my appearance
24. I would say that
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a) I am satisfied by how we initiate sex
b) I am dissatisfied with the ways we initiate sex
25. I would say that
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a) It is possible for me to refuse sex and have it be okay
b) I am unable to refuse sex and have it be okay with my partner
26. I would say that
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a) I hardly ever have sex when I don't want to
b) It seems as if I often have sex when I don't want to
27. I would say that
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a) We have many ways to satisfy one another sexually
b) We have very few ways to satisfy one another sexually
28 Overall I would say that
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a) We are good sexual partners
b) We are not very good sexual partners
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