Gottman – Love Maps

Step 1 of 2

Read each statement and fill in the appropriate TRUE or FALSE bubble.

1. I can name my partner’s best friends.
2. I can tell you what stresses my partner is currently facing.
3. I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating in my partner’s current life.
4. I can tell you some of my partner’s life dreams.
5. I am very familiar with my partner’s religious beliefs and ideas.
6. I can tell you about my partner’s basic philosophy of life.
7. I can list the relatives my partner likes the least.
8. I know my partner’s favorite music.
9. I can list my partner’s three favorite movies.
10. My partner is familiar with what are my current stresses.
11. I know the three times that have been most special in my partner’s life.
12. I can tell you the most stressful thing that happened to my partner as a child.
13. I can list my partner’s major aspirations and hopes in life.
14. I know my partner’s major current worries.
15. My partner knows who my friends are.
16. I know what my partner would want to do if he or she suddenly won the lottery.
17. I can tell you, in detail, my first impressions of my partner.
18. Periodically, I update my knowledge of my partner’s world.
19. I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.
20. My partner is familiar with my own hopes and aspirations.