Gottman – Fondness and Admiration System

Step 1 of 2

Read each statement and fill in the appropriate TRUE or FALSE bubble.

1. I can easily list the three things I most admire about my partner.
2. When we are apart, I often think fondly of my partner.
3. I will often find some way to tell my partner, “I love you.”
4. I often touch or kiss my partner affectionately.
5. My partner really respects me.
6. I feel loved and cared for in this relationship.
7. I feel accepted and liked by my partner.
8. My partner finds me sexy and attractive.
9. My partner turns me on sexually.
10. There is fire and passion in this relationship.
11. Romance is something our relationship definitely still has in it.
12. I am really proud of my partner.
13. My partner really enjoys my achievements and accomplishments.
14. I can easily tell you why I got into a relationship with my partner.
15. If I had it to do all over again, I would partner with the same person.
16. We rarely go to sleep without some show of love or affection.
17. At the end of a day my partner is glad to see me.
18. My partner appreciates the things I do in this relationship.
19. My partner generally likes my personality.
20. Our sex life is generally satisfying